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General Weight Loss Tips

Waiting For Hunger: W1D4: Ideal Day

Yesterday and the rest of this week will involve a lot of juggling. Nothing unmanageable, but my comment participation will be slow until Monday. Either way, your comments are brilliant and thoughtful. I’m still trying to answer yesterday’s question for myself.

Today though, is another question. I’m in a new Intention Circle with a lot of my creative lady friends and the question we’re trying to answer is “what does your ideal day look like?” This is more like a dream day, a fantasy. A life without barriers.

I realized in the past week as I try to answer this question: I am living my ideal life. That is not intended to be smug, but I’m realizing that the reason why this answer is so difficult is because my ideal life, IS my life. Sure, my dream day starts in Tuscany and ends at a dance party in NYC, but that’s just one day. I don’t want to live in Tuscany or NYC. I love where I live, because it was my design. Living in rural Virginia was a choice, a strange one to many, but a choice that excites me.

The thing is, the day I stepped foot in Brooklyn (or perhaps the day I left college) was the day that I understood that I am the captain of this ship. My life is not perfect, I want to be in a healthier body, I’d love to have a magazine-organized house, I’d love to travel more. But, oh my goodness. My life is a good life. I wake up and I have work to do, work that I love. Work that people pay me to do. In my pajamas most days. And others, if I want, I can get dressed to the nines.

My husband is a huge chunk of my life. Which probably makes some squeamishness and uncomfortable. Others may say, how dare you place so much importance on your husband. But, I do. He was a dream. And goodness, if I had one tidbit of advice, it is: marry a good man. Marry a man who calls you beautiful every day. Challenges you. Sees your potential and supports you. I challenged myself at a young age to marry someone who is present, who cares, who is thoughtful and creative. It helps that he is incredibly good looking. But, I didn’t settle for comfort, or ideals.

I have health insurance.  A goal that was on my new years resolution for three years. I’ve done catering, jewelry, and now clothing design. All because I want to. Not because it’s a task given to me. And sure, some things I realize I’m not suited for, but at least I did it. I have the freedom to try. And fail. And try again.

Everyday I feel at home in our house. There is no doubt in my mind that this is the house I’m supposed to live in at this stage of my life. It’s small and humble. And people tell us “you can’t do that in your house! it’s too small”. Well, I’m sorry, but three bedrooms and two baths is more than enough room for two people, 2 cats and a rabbit. And hell, if we want a baby, we’ll make room. We didn’t over extent ourselves with the best house on the block to be impressive. We don’t have the nicest car, to make us look successful. Those things, while they may fit in a dream day. Are not my ideal.

My ideal day involves, a plush white bed, a morning run, a leisurely day where I cook in the kitchen, and create in my studio. And while I don’t have a plush white bed, I could have it.  TJMaxx is only 25 minutes away. And while I don’t exercise everyday…I could. But, I have a really nice bed. I cook often and I’m creative in my studio because those things make a happy life for me.

And so I asked my husband what his ideal day looks like. And after a few silent minutes. He replied “I’m already living it”. And he is, and I knew that would be his answer. Sure, he doesn’t have the best music studio in the world, or even Floyd for that matter. But he made one happen. And it’s pretty amazing. Six years ago he said “I don’t want an office job” and two months later he never looked back. He made that happen. He reads, and studies and works hard for this life.

And so I’m realizing that the things I want, are not things or perhaps even actions, but thoughts. I want to be nicer to myself. I want to feel my feelings. I want to forgive people a little easier. I want to dance and sing a little more freely. I want to forgive myself for not always doing the right thing. My ideal day is realizing how great I have it and not wasting it on petty thoughts and negativity. My ideal day is an easy smile, a guilt-free slice of chocolate cake, it’s being passionate, seeing things through, and getting a little (or a lot) sweaty.

So I extent this question to you…what does your ideal day look like?

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Weight Loss Exercise

Juice Fasting Recipes


A lot of juice fasting recipes are available on different online sites as well as in published cook books. Juice fasting recipes aim to help you on your journey as you engage yourself in a detoxifying process for a healthier body.

To start off, you need to know the basic procedures as well as the necessary equipment needed in order to make delicious and healthy fruit and vegetable juice right in the comforts of your own home. Here is a list of some of the things you will need before proceeding to the juice-making process.

A dependable juicer that can effectively extract the juices from your chosen fruits and vegetables
A peeler will be necessary if you are someone who does not like to include fruit or vegetable skins on his juice drink.
Knife to help you cut and slice fruits and veggies
Food spatula to help you scrape off your juicer from left over chunks or froth of fruits and vegetables that you wish to incorporate in your drink.
Drinking glass
Ice cubes
Garbage receptacle

If you have all the necessary tools, you can now start making these three easy-to-make juice fasting recipes.

Juice Fasting Recipe #1: Apple-Celery Juice

Apple is known for being rich in Vitamins A and C which are natural antioxidants. It aids in proper digestion and cleanses the harmful toxins found in your colon. It is also rich in potassium that helps correct fatigue and body weakness caused by electrolyte imbalances. On the other hand, celery promotes good kidney function to help excrete body toxins in the form of urine. It is also known for its natural calming properties that relax your brain and body.

Ingredients:

3 medium-sized apples, seeded
2 stalks of celery, finely diced
Honey to taste
Ice cubes

Preparation:

Thoroughly wash the apples and celery stalks in running water.
Slice the apples in quarters and remove the seeds to avoid the occurrence of bitter taste.
Finely dice each celery stalk.
Run the apples and celery stalks on the juicer.
Using a spoon, remove the foam or froth prior to pouring your juice down to your drinking glass.
Add honey to taste.
You can also add ice cubes.

Juice Fasting Recipe #2: Cucumber Juice

Cucumber is naturally rich in Vitamin A, potassium, manganese, sulfur, silicon, and chlorophyll. It is known for promoting a healthy and radiant skin. Cucumber is also high in water content which prevents you from being hydrated while on a juice fasting routine.

Ingredients:

3 medium to large dark green cucumbers
A small piece of ginger
A tray of ice cubes

Preparation:

Wash the cucumbers. Check if they have traces of wax (some cucumber sellers put wax on these vegetables).
Peel the cucumbers.
Puree all ingredients including the cucumber seeds and small piece of ginger on the juicer.
Serve your cucumber juice cold by adding some ice cubes.

Juice Fasting Recipe #3: Carrot Juice

Carrot is a good source of beta-carotene and Vitamins A and C. It also acts as a good and natural antioxidant that fights off and removes toxins out of your system.

Ingredients:

3-4 medium sized carrots
Lemon or honey to taste
Ice cubes

Preparation:

Wash carrots thoroughly and trim off the ends.
Run it on your juicer and serve with lemon or honey drops to taste.
Add ice cubes if desired.

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Diet Pills

Top Secret Fat Loss Secrets Uncovered

I am doing this review based on my own experience. Just to give you a heads up on who I am, my name is Janet Carter, I am 35 years old, a single mom juggling PTA meetings and client reports. I have been on the chubby side for the most part of my life and for the rest, I was on the really heavy side (this was my post-pregnancy years).
I have tried countless fad diets that took me to a whole new level of yo-yoing in terms of weight, I have given up on exercising as it just could not fit into my schedule and I promised myself I will not use any one of those diet pills out in the market as they just make me feel very energetic for a few minutes, then they make me feel drained for the rest of the day.
I was working like a horse to feed my family and I act as a father and a mother to my 12 year old daughter which drains every ounce of energy that I have. I was a few pounds over weight, okay more than a few pounds at that and it makes me feel inferior in so many times.
This was me and this was my life. That is, before I discovered the top secret fat loss diet that jump started me to a better and healthier body.
The plan in itself is very simple. Once you purchase the program for a couple of bucks, you get the top secret fat loss meal generator that will make and plan your meals following your food preferences. Its 4-meal plan structure is done in such a way that you are never hungry because you get to eat every 2. 5 hours.
The reason why this fat loss diet worked for me is due to the simplicity of the plan. As was mentioned earlier, you get to eat 4 meals a day. 4 meals consisting of food items that you fancy, thus it is really easy stick to a diet plan. Then, you also get to eat every 2. 5 hours so you do not feel hungry and energy deprived. More so, you will feel that you are full of energy because you get your dose of calories every 2. 5 hours!
This fat loss diet promises that you can lose at least 9 pounds in 11 days. For me, I actually lost 11 pounds in 11 days! I was also surprised myself as I never felt this healthy and full of energy in my entire life.
And do you know what I did to celebrate this?
After 11 days, I ate a slice of strawberry pie. And yes, this is okay with this glorious top secret fat loss diet plan. After 11 days of dieting, the plan gives you 3 whole days to “cheat” wherein you can eat almost whatever you want, so long as you do not binge.
So now, after 1 month into the plan, I am down 2 dress sizes and I have never felt better.