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The Public Life

This week has been emotionally hard. But, I’m determined to break into a new week tomorrow with vitality and excitement. It also helps that I will be rolling into the new age of 28.

We are starting a new exercise routine today. Yoga class has (sadly) ended and insanity is nearing completion. So we will be revisiting the first four weeks of insanity everyday monday-friday, saturdays will be off and sundays will be spent at the gym strength training. Yoga and running sessions will be divided up among extra energetic days.

Today I wanted to talk about blogging. I love talking about blogging, more so than my own blog. I get a lot of emails asking about how I started, how I got people to read (kind of), and who designed it. I also get real-life questions that involve the main question “why!?” and then I try to explain and it always comes back as “but why??”

At a distance blogging looks like a means to gain attention, to brag, an adult show-n-tell. But if you look a little deeper you will find that there are many colorful, creative, curious people who just want to share, inspire and learn. I hope I come off as the latter.

I think blogging is weird to most people. Me for example, you can find out my weight, what foods I eat, when I will be at the gym. You know I’m married, that I have two cats, and a rabbit. You know what my bedroom and kitchen look like…when they’re clean of course. You know that I struggle with overeating- which isn’t an easy secret to hide. You know (a little) of what I do to make a living.  You know that I have a strong network of friends. You know that I travel. That I love to eat interesting foods, and that I cook.

But there are many many things that I don’t share. So why?

Back in the early 2000’s I was introduced to the blogging community Craftster (by ashley, thank you very much). And I was shocked. It was like discovering a little community of gnomes living in the base of my backyard tree. Here were hundreds, if not thousands of women who were a little off-beat. Who made something and felt so proud that they had to share. Because making something yourself is a big deal to a lot of us. I got that. I still get it.

That community morphed into a full-fledge obsession with the online creative community. I would skip classes to stay home and sew appliqués on t-shirts or skirts. Mostly stuff I would later sell on ebay for a little cash. I just couldn’t believe that such people existed, mostly because I had only met a couple of them in my real life. I felt understood and supported by people I never would have met otherwise.

And then I found their blogs. Alicia Paulson, whom I still read, was one of them. I was and am in awe of everything she creates, which somehow turns to magic. Her words are like a really delicious dessert that you never want to end. She is articulate. Her stories about childhood summers, or afternoons at grandparents houses take me back. I can almost smell the pool we frequented as a child.

But most of all Alicia inspired me. She didn’t show me her amazing studio to make me feel inferior about my little creative nook in my shared apartment. She doesn’t share the story about her recent bathroom remodel just to make me crave tile instead of linoleum in mine. She doesn’t show her dinners, or homemade birthday cakes for her husband because she believes she is more awesome than me. I don’t know why exaclty she shares, but if I’m anything like Alicia it’s because we have to. Because it’s inspiring to share. Because we’re a little proud of ourselves.

It’s nice to know that people are out there like us. Who drool over vintage fabrics, or scour the internet for the perfect recipes, or find pleasure in the same things women a hundred years ago did: sewing, baking, gardening,  making a home. In real-life, these activities are often met with resistance. But why? Why not just go to McDonalds? Why not just close your eyes and pick a color for your bedroom (or let someone else do it)? Why not just open a package and eat? Why not just go about life not thinking about anything at all because dare I say it’s a little weird to want to can in 2011, or want to sew your own clothes when you can just go get something at Old Navy, or want to grow your own herbs and vegetables when there are a million super markets? Why do anything at all when you can just buy it? And that’s the point of blogging to me. It’s an army of interesting lives. People who dare to have a bigger life and go a step further to share the life they are creating.

Blogging is inspiring to me. I could only hope someone has found inspiration in my words and life. Inspiration to try a little harder at life, to consider things, to develop your personality to just do something other than watch TV. That would be the highest form of flattery to me.

I share my life because there are people that read what I have to say and get it. I find community and inspiration in that. Something I’ve rarely felt in real life. Because of Krissie, I started to run. Because of Miranda, I gave up TV. Because of Ree, I started taking photographs. Because of Alicia, I made homemade cakes (and dinner!). Because of Roni, I didn’t feel ashamed to share my weight loss journey. Because of Emily, I dreamed of working for myself. Because of NieNie, I don’t feel so scared to be a mother. Because of Heidi, I felt more creative.

And I’m sure all of these women and the countless other ones out there have met resistance for what they do and the lives they lead. But I’m grateful that they do share, because it’s not “over sharing” or “braggy”, it’s real and it let’s me know that I’m not alone.

And to answer the other questions…I create all of the headers and graphics for my blog. My husband does the other stuff, like SEO and wordpress manipulation. Stuff that I have little patience for. People come to my blog through comments I’ve left, twitter, or finding me on google search results. My only advice for blogging is to find your own voice and not to compare yourself to other bloggers. This is one I still struggle with.

I wanted to be as good as so and so. But, I am just one person. Blogging is not my business or main source of income. I make a little money selling ad space on my blog, but I’m very picky about the ads and know the people behind them. I also make a little money when I link to Amazon. About $50 a month- big bucks.

I’m very bad about returning emails and doing product reviews. This is a warning. Some top bloggers will say you should respond to every single email that comes through, even the bad ones. If I did this, I would never do anything else. I’m also bad about leaving comments or creating a community with my blog. I’m not a good blogger or a professional writer. I rarely edit my posts, and it’s obvious. I don’t lose sleep about grammar or spelling, I probably should. So pretty much…don’t do anything that I do! It’s just me and my thoughts around here.

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Treatments for Anxiety

Treatments for Anxiety

Treatments for Anxiety

Treatments for Anxiety are very important in our fast paced society. The uneasy feeling that accompanies a strange dog’s growl is the first line of the body’s defense against danger. The normal discomfort and worry most people experience in common, unpleasant situations is temporary, but for 40 million Americans each year, that same apprehension crosses a line, becoming a dread that won’t go away. Uneasiness intensifies into a sustained, uncontrollable fear becoming a disorder that requires treatment.

Diagnosis and Scope of Anxiety Disorders

It’s easy for the distressing symptoms of anxiety disorders to be masked by medical conditions, making diagnoses difficult for physicians. Depression is often a companion issue for anxiety disorder sufferers and symptoms may overlap. A thorough patient examination helps to eliminate any medical problems. Once a disorder is isolated and identified, treatment may include medication, psychiatric therapy or even a combination of standard and alternative therapies.

Excessive anxiety and underlying distress that interfere with everyday living are common factors among the six major psychiatric conditions known as anxiety disorders. These are generalized anxiety disorder and panic disorder, phobias, obsessive-compulsive disorder, social anxiety disorder and post-traumatic stress disorder. Each condition manifests itself differently from patient to patient requiring customized treatment, according to an individual’s specific disorder and needs. Successful treatment is commonly accomplished within a relatively short period of time.

Treatments for Anxiety with Medications

There are many treatments for anxiety and medications are one of them. While medications are often integrated with therapy and sometimes complementary or alternative forms of treatment, medicines can also be used alone depending on the patient’s condition and preference of treatment. Medications used for treatment are not cures for an anxiety disorder; however, they can be used by the patient situationally or as a way to keep it under control during coexisting behavioral treatment.

When medications are suggested for treatment, doctors must first rule out any possible contributing causes for the anxiety that might interfere with the medication’s performance. Since patients with anxiety disorders are often simultaneously affected by depression or substance abuse, a doctor may suggest separate treatment for these particular problems in advance of any anxiety treatment.

Drugs Available as Treatments for Anxiety

Depending on the symptoms and intensity of the anxiety disorder, a doctor may prescribe medications from one of three categories: antidepressants, beta-blockers or anti-anxiety drugs. Antidepressants are especially effective in treatment for those patients whose anxiety diagnosis also encompasses depression. Among the antidepressants prescribed are selective serotonin uptake reinhibitors or SSRIs, which facilitate neurotransmitter communication in the brain. Other antidepressants are tricyclics and, the dependable older antidepressants, monoamine oxidase inhibitors or MAOIs.

Treatments for Anxiety prescriptions, especially for those who have a joint diagnosis of drug or alcohol abuse, may include anti-anxiety drugs called benzodiazepines. Since the benzodiazepines Clonazapam and Buspirone can be habit-forming, they are meant only for short-term treatment. Beta-blockers like propranolol, also used in treating heart ailments, are most often prescribed for anxiety in limited doses to prevent the physical rather than emotional symptoms associated with anxiety.

Treatments for Anxiety – Medications

Depending on the anxiety disorder diagnosed, a patient may require anxiety medication only during certain anxiety-producing situations. An example would be an anxiety sufferer who is afraid to fly. In that case, a patient would only need a prescription medicine before a flight would take place. Alternately, a patient may be asked to continue taking medication to help control ongoing anxiety symptoms during the course of a companion psychiatric treatment. Generalized anxiety disorder and obsessive-compulsive disorder normally require longer prescriptions. Because some anxiety treatment medications may be addictive and cause negative side effects, most are prescribed for anxiety treatment only for short-term use.

Anxiety Treatments with Psychiatry

Medications are frequently paired with psychotherapy to increase the effectiveness of anxiety treatment. Psychotherapy, conducted with a mental health professional and sometimes called talk therapy, is used to encourage a patient to reflect on the past to learn the root cause of an anxiety disorder. This type of therapy can work well for anxiety suffers who have trouble associating the anxiety disorder with life experiences that may have triggered it.

Another type of psychiatric anxiety treatment is CBT or Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy. CBT goes beyond sourcing the anxiety disorder and moves in a direction that helps a patient change patterns or behaviors related to his fears. By altering what a patient thinks about fear and how he responds to it, the intensity of the anxiety symptoms can eventually diminish and even disappear.

As part of the progression of treatments for anxiety in Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, a patient may be asked to confront his fear directly in a safe and supervised environment. As the exposure to the object or situation he most fears increases during CBT anxiety treatment, the patient learns to take feel more comfortable and begins to take more control of his responses.

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Alternatives Treatments for Anxiety

Therapy and medication are widely believed to be the optimum anxiety treatment, but recently doctors and psychiatrists have considered complementary and alternative anxiety treatments to further ensure treatment success. The alternatives offer new options for anxiety treatment, some of which are under the direct control of the patient.

In conjunction with the treatments for Anxietys already prescribed, a patient may be directed to take up a vigorous exercise program. Consistent exercise helps to naturally release endorphins, hormones that positively affect emotions and help produce a sense of wellbeing. An anxiety disorder patient could also be instructed in alternate breathing techniques, learned through yoga classes, that would help to balance the patient’s responses to anxiety. Hypnosis and biofeedback are also considered complementary anxiety treatments.

Treatments for Anxiety as a Solution

Not all anxiety disorders reveal themselves in the same manner, but all anxiety symptoms are responses to the same feelings of dread and apprehension that anxiety sufferers share. The anxiety treatment program that works best is one in which the anxiety disorder is correctly and quickly diagnosed followed by the proper anxiety treatment of medication, therapy, alternatives or a successful mix of all three as treatments for anxiety.

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Portion Control Tips

Portion Control Tips

Portion Control Tips

This post of portion Control tips is a long time coming and I hope it helps me as much as it helps you.

Damn,  tonight I overate…again.

Once every two weeks my family and I go out for dinner. We were finding that we were going out too often so we decided to only og out once every couple of weeks to eat better (restaurant and fast food tend to be bad) and to save money. One side effect is that we have complete control over what we eat.

Well tonight I blew it.

We went out for Vietnamese food and as always we order a few plates for all of use to share. I sure wish I would have written these portion control tips before I went out. I out did myself and ate twice what I should have.

I tend to graze throughout the day and my major meals of breakfast, lunch and dinner are fairly small but when I get to a buffet or get a chance to share food I do not share very well. My portion control without fixed portions is tough. I never really portion like my wife does, no measuring cups or anything but without a plate to gauge myself by I tend to be terrible.

Here are 5 Portion Control Tips

1. Drink 1 large cup of water 30 minutes before you meal – The water will fill your stomach a little and start you thinking about the size of your stomach.

2. Dish up all food at once – The problem with how I ate today or any buffet style meal is that you do not know how much you are eating. 1 plate for 1 meal will make you know what you are eating without getting distraction.

3. Eat slowly and concentrate on all the fork or spoonfuls of food – We are supposed to enjoy our meals but I know that when I watch my kids or even myself I will catch us not enjoying but instead racing through eating a meal. Food is not to be sprinted through but enjoyed. Take your time, enjoy it with you and your family.

4. Eat only until you are satisfied – Know when to stop. Having that water before and eating slowly will help you understand how much food you need and to stop on time. No reason to eat to much.

5. Remember that this is not your last meal – Enough said. You can eat again in a few hours.

I am hoping that these portion control tips will help you. None of them are very inspired or earth shattering but as 5 tips go they are great to help you to eat better, enjoy your food and never have an excuse to overeat.

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